Free Discussion, August, 2020

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38 comments:

Nan said...

Earlier this week watched an older episode of the Bates family. The episode featured Kelly homeschooling her children. Kelly appeared very focused to teach the kids. BTW even though it was a religious school both Kelly & Gil are college educated so they are better equipped to homeschool vs the limited education & interest of Michelle.

Mickey2942 said...

https://www.intouchweekly.com/posts/are-lawson-bates-and-bachelor-alum-heather-martin-courting-details/

Looks like Lawson Bates is allowed out of the house. The Bates have allowed their children to do more than the Duggars allow their children to do.

Meanwhile, Janarella is waiting for Lawson...

KitKath said...

Whoa—Carlin and Evan has corona

Molly said...

Joe and Kendra are pregnant again. Saw the article in People mag this morning. The kids are 2 and 9 months. Is she the next Michelle?

Tammy C said...

Oh my Baby #3 for Joe and Kendra due in February 2021.

Nan said...

OMG Geez. Too bad Kendra just can’t think for herself but is brainwashed into believing her only value as a woman is to quickly keep getting pregnant.

Mickey2942 said...

https://news.yahoo.com/joe-kendra-duggar-expecting-3rd-155600052.html

No job. Baby every single year. Yay. Let's be happy for this young couple.

Allo said...

Joe is looking a lot older than his age. Imagine after 3 or 4 more kids in the next five years

Nan said...

Will these kids ever learn that birth control is not a sin it’s just smart to manage ones life.

zebra crossing said...

When are we going to see DuggarTWIN grandchildren...like maybe Kendra will have twins? Wonder what the odds are for each pregnancy of each couple?

Mia said...

Kendra's pregnant again. Corona's at an all time high. Only a Duggar. Smh.

zebra crossing said...

Predictions:
Joy's baby girl - 08/22 9lbs7oz. Harper Jillian
Jinger's. girl. - 02/20. 7lbs7oz. Kirsten Michelle
Kendra - boy? 02/05. 7lbs5oz. Hailey Josephine
Alyssa Bates- boy? 02/14. 7 lbs 1 oz. Ava Kelly

Judy said...

I think Jinger is due in November, not February.

Judy said...

Joy Anna had her baby on Friday. No name in the articles.

zebra crossing said...

Oops.
AND I predicted boys but put girls' names. Oh well...working late didn't do my brain any good.
So....Jinger. girl - 11/20
Kendra boy - Erick Robert
Alyssa boy - John Drake

Can't wait to hear the name of Joy and Austin's baby girl...she is so cute. Looks like her brother

Brianna said...

I am not a fan of Jim Bob and Michelle. I haven't watched the show for some time, but I ran across this on Facebook and my mouth is still open:
https://www.facebook.com/duggarfamilyofficial/videos/393562441612226

They need to give up the show and get out from under Jim Bob's control and make a CD.

I am trying to find it on Youtube so I can share it with others who are not on Facebook.

zebra crossing said...

I often wonder if Jimbob and Michelle have any regrets for doing the show...having their family in the limelight encouraged someone to out Josh...Jill and Derick aren't included or welcome at their home...Their original plan was for this to be a ministry...but I don't see it.

Mia said...

zebra crossing, what a thoughtful post and I was just wondering the same thing myself. The family is splintered and the older girls are troubled. Was the money really worth it? It cost them their family.

Mommy in PA said...

So Joy had her baby and we still don't know her name.... I wonder if they are withholding the name in an attempt to get more viewers when they eventually air the birth episode?

Nan said...

I definitely agree. Jim Bob has a pseudo ministry meaning it’s about him. His rules, controlling behavior, his ostracizing of Jill & Derick, his minimizing of women & female children, his opinion that education is not needed, his absolute control of his kids finances, his dictatorship persona. This is behavior of one who is in charge of a Cult. It’s too bad that the majority of the adult Duggar kids apart from Derick & Jeremy can’t see the real Jim Bob.

Just me said...

If they air Joy’s baby birth on their regular delayed schedule, the baby will be walking by the time we learn her name.

sandi said...

The Counting On page on Wiki lists Joy's baby as Evelyn Forsyth

Sharla said...

Joy Anna and Austin named the baby Evelyn Mae.
Evelyn is the name of one of Michelle's sisters.

June said...

Jim Bob is the perfect narcissist.

Mickey2942 said...

Noticed that it was a hospital birth. I guess that the home birth movement has been nixed. JB can't control everything.

Mickey2942 said...

It is a "ministry", if you worship money.

Aung Bea said...

Mickey2942 8/27 7:45pm...this is the best comment yet. Yes, Jim Bob and Michelle belong to the church of the Almighty Dollar. Well said. If it weren't true, they would keep their lying faces off of the television screen...but no, they are front and center collecting those pay checks.

Z said...

When on camera it appears Jim Bobs lack of education specific to communication is paramount as he generally only speaks in one syllable words. He’s a Joke!

Nan said...

I see similar traits in personality regarding Jim Bob & Warren Jeffs that’s really very disturbing.

roddma said...

I think we need a reminder the Bateses aren't better. If the Bateses cared about education, the girls woudln't marry so young or give up what little skills they do have. Kelly has a special ed degree and thought it better to have 19 kids. Jill has shown more improvements than any Bates kid. From what Gil preaches, I'm afraid no Bates grandkid will ever go to even a private school let alone a decent homeschool education or get psychiatric treatment. Jim Bob and Gil are both dangerous and narcissistic. Gil just can't control them with money.

roddma said...

I keep forgetting Kendra is pregnant again. Robert is Jeremiah and Jedidiah's middle name and Jim Bob's. But repeat names hasn't stopped them before. Anything beats Spurgeon I guess.

June said...

Both Jim Bob & Gil belong to the Church of the Dollar $$$.

Nan said...

Last night watched a repeat UP episode that featured Michaela Bates Keilen. There’s something odd about Michaela she appears oppressed. The episode focused on Michaela & Brandon’s courtship, engagement prior to their wedding. Michaela seems to be totally enamored with Brandon. Why does Michaela continue to wear skirts that are long to the ankle? Her sisters wear much shorter skirts. IMO Michaela just appears very much different than her sisters. I realize Brandon & she continue to struggle with fertility issues & that she wants to become a Mom. I think of all the Bates adult girls Michaela would be the most caring Mom. If the Keilens can’t have a child biologically perhaps they will consider adoption...

Mickey2942 said...

I believe that these reality TV shows do more harm to families than help. I think that Jeremy Roloff is such an articulate young man, who has left reality TV life, and felt that the show completely dominated his childhood and family life.

I don't like the "Duggar Model" that made reality TV the "fantasy" to support his huge family. It is cruel to encourage people to have huge families, they won't have a TLC bailout.

I truly believe that Michelle had baby after baby, as fast as possible once JB saw his big family as a money maker.

glass dishes said...

I wonder what will happen to these grown kids who depend on Jboob for money. The Gravy train wont last forever!

Mia said...

In a perfect world, the Duggar kids (and in-laws!) would all grow a backbone, leave the nest and go to work. They would build or buy their OWN houses and refuse to take any money from Jim Bob. They would all reject TLC's hold on them until there WAS no t.v. show. They would refuse to wear silly costumes and have races and give birth on national television.
Isn't it interesting that Jim Bob has no time for Jeremy, the SIL who is most like him? Instead he prefers good ol' parasitic Ben. Seems JB was not the least bit cautious about Ben, the kid who liked Jessa and basically showed up on their doorstep. Strangely, JB wasn't worried that Ben might be looking for a share of the Duggar cash. In fact, he seemed to ENCOURAGE that boy from day one. It's all about CONTROL.

Willow said...

Mia - I so agree with you! Plus, Jessa told JB at one point that she WAS going to marry Ben and that was all there was to it. They (Jessa and JB) were sitting in their bus in front of the Bates house. They had gone there to visit and had taken Ben with them. She laid down the law to JB in her usual sassy way and he seemed to take it. I think he had had questions for her about Ben but she shut it down. That is how I remember it and I sure would love to see that episode again, lol.

Camille said...

There have recently been several Duggar daughters and/or in-laws having miscarriages. Unlike JB & Michelle's oft-repeated miscarriage story, a miscarriage is not God's punishment for taking birth control. So happy to hear about Joy's rainbow baby arriving safely. All babies are precious, but I know (personally) there's something special about a rainbow baby.